I'm not saying I get laid more that way, but it does lighten things up.
I went off an on until I went through a divorce and than stopped for ten to twelve years no money my ex had it all. 95% are Korean, with a few Vietnamese Thais and girls that grew up in Guam ,,,,,its an addiction not sure I could stop if I wanted to which I don't...I get tired of same I just stop going to that spot for a 6 months or so60. Just too frustrated with older married life, with gal that just won't do anything new or adventurous. Been doing this for about a dozen years here in south Florida.
I picked it back up maybe three or four years after catching the posts on BP. In my younger years it was more about getting off now it is different hard to explain but I enjoy the touch of someone else and the occasional tease. It gets dull doing the same old thing for the last 40 years. Main reason initially was that, being a tit man with a small-chested wife, I wanted to play with some C's and D's, and also get a 'strange' The only difference between bigmac48 and me is our age.
At best I accept a hand job but rarely full service. Since I'm Hispanic myself I click with them real well. I gotta say to both of you that your kidding yourselves when you're arguing about caring for/ or not caring for these women, and how stylish you are as hobbyists. We are sex addicts and it's us that are gonna move on to some other strange. Please, don't think we are cool because we pay for sex. Was having some back problems, so started getting messages. As you said, it's not an inexpensive hobby, but it keeps the juices flowing, so I'll keep at it for a while longer.
Yes, you might care, might treat them well, might even love. It's not a bad thing, per say, but don't count it as a notch on your guitar. Soon found out I could take care of both problems in one place! The good thing about being older is that you don't worry too much about not having six-pack abs or a 10" johnson, so it's just about having fun and making the girl's day a bit brighter.
Personally, and probably good for the activity, I prefer the older ones.