Whenever a woman asks you any kind of PERSONAL question, especially when it doesn't seem to fit in the conversation, get a little suspicious about it. She wants to know how much money you make to identify what external benefits she would get by getting together with you. Guys who brag about their jobs or money, though they may think they're impressing a woman, are really making themselves an open target for manipulation.And she wants to know your dating history to identify what internal benefits she'd experience by getting together with you.
Family, friends, God…find out if these bonds are strong. In most cases, how a man feels about you will be very different from what he thinks of you.
Steve says a man's relationship with his mother is the most critical. If that bond has been tainted or broken, please know he has no problem tainting or breaking yours," he says. "A man that has been thinking about you seriously has an answer for that," Steve says. I feel like when I'm not with you, I ain't going to make it. I feel like finally I've met somebody who I can share my hopes and dreams with.' …
Then women stay with you for the internal benefits you offer them, which not only means it's for who you are as a person — rather than for being a means to an end, like a provider — it's for the relationship itself.
It's personal — not business, like the relationship with a provider.
Before you get too attached, Steve Harvey, comedian and author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man , says there are five questions every woman should ask.