A consistent point that emerged from research by Thomas & Terry Gould, is that in nearly each and every interview held, it was the male part in couples that first suggested swinging to the woman. This is demonstrated by the very high levels of bi-sexuality found in swinging women, but that fact that bi-sexuality in men in all but abhorred in the swinging community.
However, it was then the woman that made the effort to maintain this lifestyle practice. This may be tied to the fact that society deems it far more acceptable for woman to engage in relations with another woman for her and her partner's pleasure, than for the same couple to swap partners.
It is noteworthy however that monogamy is required for neither of the above, rather, it is society that assumes that the former cannot exist without the latter.
Swinging and swingers are not hell bent on destroying either marriage or relationships between couples in their more general scope.
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