The challenge is, in her natural behavioural style, the Alpha Female doesn’t always attract a Beta Male (in fact, she probably scares the pants off him, and not in a good way! The good news is that with a few behavioural tweaks, Alpha Females can start to connect with Beta Males. Create space and time in your life Alpha Females are inclined to fill their lives with personal and professional ‘busyness’ and tend to operate in a highly self-sufficient manner.
When asked out on a date, an Alpha Female might reply that she will be free for a coffee in 3 weeks!
Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time. Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable You might think that you’re being a gentleman by letting your date decide where you go on your date, but women often like to see that you can take control.
Since the sexual revolution, women have been progressively building their self-worth, assertiveness, social and political power, and this has led to the emergence of a new brand of woman.
The new Alpha Female is sometimes accused of behaving in a masculine manner and is even labeled negatively when she is seen to be acting against her traditional roles.
Ask yourself these questions: Now, of course, there needs to be room for individual differences, personality styles and family backgrounds, but generally, if you responded more YES than NO, the research suggests you may be an Alpha Female.
There seems to be a common misconception that Alpha Females need to partner up with Alpha Males.
If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short (without appearing suspicious).