But once dating stopped being such a big part of my life and I wasn't virtually surrounded by people seeking a partner, I began to realize a few years is not a long time at all.
It takes a lot of self-control not to obsess After I went on my first date during my break, I realized why I took the break in the first place: Because when I like someone, I get a little intense. " and "OMG he doesn't like me." And then there's the other kind of obsessive thinking: "Where will our next date be? I look back on some of my former relationships and think, "Why did I put up with that?
My internal dialogue becomes a series of thoughts like, "Did he text me back yet? " I dated someone who didn't even remember what I did for a living and someone who wasn't sure if I "added enough to his life intellectually." I somehow thought this all was better than nothing, but as it turns out, "nothing" ain't so bad.9.
Back when FOMO was keeping me glued to my apps, I wish someone had reassured me other prospects would come my way if I looked up for a second.2.
Online dating is addictive Right after I decided to stop going on OKCupid, I actually had to stop my hands from typing the "o" into my browser when I wanted a work break (OK I slipped up a few times, I'll admit it).
Being single for a while is really not a problem When I was online dating, I was getting worried that I'd been single for —as if that was a lot.